Category Archives: social capital

Bobcats, pet cats, and FPF

Posted on Saturday, December 13, 2008 by • No comments yet

Folks in Rural Charlotte having been posting about lost cats, and then today a member wrote…

The cat’s family has turned up, plus others looking for their cat. It’s amazing how fast Front Porch Forum gets people in touch with each other! Thanks!

Charlie followed up with his own posting…

Speaking of cats, I saw two bobcats loping through Horsfords towards demeter yesterday (Friday).  They may be why the cat at the Hammers is seeking refuge – I know our barn cat Mirabel hunkers into the barn more when a bobcat is around.  Greenbush Roaders may want to keep a close eye on their pets.

This is the first time I’ve seen bobcats roaming in pairs.  I suspect their population is on the rise.  Does anyone else think so?

“The planet does not need more ‘successful’ people”

Posted on Friday, December 12, 2008 by • No comments yet

Another outstanding quote provided by a Front Porch Forum member.  Thanks to Annie Dunn Watson in Essex…

“The plain fact is that the planet does not need more ‘successful’ people. But it does desperately need more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers, and lovers of every shape and form. It needs people who live well in their places. It needs people of moral courage willing to join the fight to make the world habitable and humane. And these needs have little to do with success as our culture has defined it.”  –David Orr

“Happy neighbors make you happy”

Posted on Wednesday, December 10, 2008 by • No comments yet

My neighbor Greg Fanslow posted this on Front Porch Forum just now…

Something happened to our outlooks when we moved to the Five Sisters last summer. The sense of community seems to make people happier and we literally felt like it was quite contagious. Now there is compelling scientific evidence to show that having happy neighbors is good for you.

Yesterday I came across a recent article in the British Medical Journal that analyzed data from a long term study of 5,124 people from Framingham, Mass. While a lot of previous studies have looked at links between happiness and genetics and socioeconomic factors, this study looked at how peoples’ social connections influence happiness.

And they found that the happiness of your next door neighbors is a stronger predictor of your own happiness than any other significant relationships. Incredibly neighbors have a bigger effect than spouses!

The study concluded that:
– If a friend who lives within a mile of you becomes happy, it increases your chances of being happy by 25%
– if your coresident spouse becomes happy, your chances increase by 8%
– if your sibling living within a mile becomes happy your chances increase by 14%
– if your coworkers are happy, it has no effect on your happiness.
– if your NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR becomes happy, your chances increase by (drum roll please….) a whopping 34%!

So that’s right. If you have a grumpy coworker, it might be a nice thing to try and brighten their day, but you won’t benefit from your efforts very much. On the other hand, if your neighbor is feeling down in the dumps, it’s clearly worth it to cheer them up!

All that said, in spite of the overwhelming weight of scientific evidence, I plan to continue being accommodating and cheerful with my wife, Yolanda– just to be safe.

For the full article, see: http://jhfowler.ucsd.edu/dynamic_spread_of_happiness.pdf

Greg seems like a fairly happy guy… good for me!  I’ll try to return the favor.

Front Porch Forum in Two Slides

Posted on Wednesday, December 10, 2008 by • No comments yet

Here’s Front Porch Forum boiled down to two slides…

“next Buddha will take the form of a community”

Posted on Tuesday, December 9, 2008 by • No comments yet

Janet, a Front Porch Forum member in Burlington, shared this quote yesterday…

“The next Buddha will not take the form of an  individual.  The next Buddha will take the form of a community; a community practicing understanding and loving  kindness, a community practicing mindful living.  This may  be the most important thing we can do for the survival of  the Earth.”  –Thich Nhat Hanh

I see that it’s all over the internet, but I can’t easily find the original source.  I seem to recall hearing Thich Nhat Hanh in an overheated and overflowing UVM gymnasium a decade ago.  Not sure why memories from age 12 are crystal clear, but those from 32 are so foggy.

Neighbors can be there through good times and bad

Posted on Monday, December 8, 2008 by • No comments yet

Not all Front Porch Forum stories are about good news.  From Joanna today…

A sad story, but Front Porch Forum made it just a bit less so.  Our cat disappeared on Halloween and we were worried.  A neighbor posted on FPF that they had found a cat matching Rinster’s description, which had been hit by a car.   The people who found him were kind, thoughtful, and understanding.  I am so grateful that we did not spend days or weeks wondering what had happened, and that we were able to mourn and bury him.  Thank you for being there.

Widening the circle of community

Posted on Sunday, December 7, 2008 by • No comments yet

Sometimes people use Front Porch Forum to stir up a sense of community where little existed before.  Other times it’s used in an area with well-established connectedness and mutual support to bring even more neighbors into the circle.

Heidi posted to her neighbors via FPF today…

We will be putting together and delivering the holiday boxes on Sunday.

You are invited to help!

Because we have always had such a generous abundance of donations, we have the resources to be sure that we cover anyone in our community who may be in need… Please remember, while many of us have jobs and/or steady incomes, several places have had lay-offs… and this has impacted people in our town.

Now about charity. The boxes are a gift from the community and we give them in this spirit. I speak from experience. Sixteen years ago in October, my husband was laid off from his job of almost 20 years. We had three boys, ages 3, 2, and under 1. To say it was a blow would be an understatement. He was also laid-up with hernia surgery. A car came up the driveway and two members of the fire department brought us a large box of food. We were astonished and a bit embarrassed. And so moved. We knew who was behind this and we were grateful for her work on the boxes and the kindness that was shown to our family. We also knew that our situation would change and that this was a gift.

Back to 2008…

And she goes on to describe what’s needed and how to participate.  Wow… what a priveledge for Front Porch Forum to be part of this incredible tradition.  We’re humbled… a great start to the holiday season.

Community More Powerful Than Locks!

Posted on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 by • No comments yet

On the eve of the Thanksgiving holiday, Hilary just posted the following to Front Porch Forum in Burlington’s Old North End…

Community More Powerful Than Locks!

Hi folks – With all this talk about bike theft, thought it would be a good time to share with you that my bike, which I reported stolen about a month ago, was spotted by a friend and successfully returned to me!  I’d also like to share how super supportive this community was in response–I received over 10 offers to borrow or keep spare bikes.  I feel very, very, fortunate to live here, and appreciate the ways we work together.  Thanks to everyone!

Another great example of how many of us are surrounded by inherrent goodwill. Regrettably, it mostly goes unnoticed and untapped.  Front Porch Forum is in a privileged position… to be able to help people help their previously anonymous and unknown neighbors… it’s hard to describe the impact of these small gestures as they accumulate.

Citizen Engagement and Economic Growth

Posted on Monday, November 24, 2008 by • 1 comment

From a Knight Foundation blog today…

Soul of the Community (SOTC) is a three-year study conducted by Gallup of the 26 Knight Foundation communities across the United States focusing on the emotional side of the connection between residents and their communities.

In its first year, the study compared residents’ engagement level to the GDP growth in the 26 communities over the past five years. The findings (overall report, reports by community) show a significant correlation between community-citizen engagement and the economic growth.

A Beautiful Gesture… Happy Thanksgiving

Posted on Friday, November 21, 2008 by • No comments yet

Jess posted the following today to her 400-household neighborhood via Front Porch Forum…

ROOM AT OUR TABLE
Hi Neighbors – Did you forget to make plans for Thanksgiving? Plans fall through? Looking at a boring/lonely turkey sandwich? Have a friend in such a situation? Please consider joining us. We have a few (1-3) extra seats at our cozy table, a big turkey, lots of other yummy dishes, and a lot of friendship to share. Kids welcome.

Please join us in celebrating this season of blessings and renewal…give me a call or email…

We see so many wonderful postings flow through FPF that I get inurred… but this one gave me pause… what a beautiful gesture.  Happy Thanksgiving Jessica and family.

And the posting from her neighbor that came through at the same time made me smile…

QUAIL EGGS FOR SALE
My hens are laying more than I can eat! The cost is $3 for 9 eggs. The eggs are organic and local and they make a great addition to any dish… especially for Thanksgiving!

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