Ghost of Midnight

… about neighbors, community and Front Porch Forum

Best of FPF: Blast Off to Adventure!

Posted on Wednesday, March 12, 2025 by No comments yet

Nadine posted an unusual item for sale in the Charlotte Forum. We thought it was well worth a share:

“Calling all little astronauts! This one-of-a-kind handmade space capsule is ready for liftoff. Built from a repurposed sodar speaker shell, it’s fiberglass like a boat, with a padded interior for comfy space missions. The wood-and-tin nose cone lifts off for easy entry, and for safety, the hatch doesn’t latch—just push it open when it’s time to return to Earth!

At 3 feet wide and 3.5 feet tall, it’s the perfect size for young explorers. A dream hideout for future astronauts, deep-space adventurers, or secret mission planners. Give this rocket ship a new home and let the countdown begin!”

Want to hear the follow up to this story? The space capsule is no longer for sale – a teacher from Ferrisburgh heard about this treasure and now it’s going to be donated to their school! Many adventures to come…

Best of FPF: Democracy and a Folding Chair

Posted on Friday, February 28, 2025 by No comments yet

Anyone looking for Democracy on Monday night could have found her
at Woodbury Town Hall, sitting on a folding chair among a group of
residents meeting with the Select Board to discuss the proposed
Woodbury Mountain Wilderness Preserve.

She sat attentively through the presentation, learning about
“belt and suspender” conservation easements, forever-wild preservation,
saw-whet owls and fingernail clams; use value appraisal program,
red spruce-cinnamon fern, carbon, fishers, American beech;
transfer tax, linkage, Worcester to the Kingdom and Eagle Ledge,
watershed divide — Lamoille, Winooksi — meeting again in
Lake Champlain; black cherry, perpetuity, blue warbler, yellow—
bellied flycatcher, pink lady slipper, Huge Meyer and E.B. Hyde,
one Mountain, four Towns, and a Family that cared for its land…

As the agenda proceeded to comments and questions,
she edged forward in her chair. The public body raised its
hands representing voices ready to speak; in turn the
moderator signaled and they spoke: proponents citing
water, wildlife, habitat, views — protecting the roots;
opponents citing hunting, logging, traverse, tradition —
protecting the roots. Strong pleadings, disputes,
assertions, rebuttals; yet civil, forbearing, keeping the
ground fertile for seeds of concession and fruits of consensus.

Democracy herself said nothing, but nodded in agreement at
points well-made on both sides. She noted the solemn and eager,
with hands raised awaiting to speak — such restraint effecting
the orderliness required by Open Meeting Law, and
the neighborliness needed to build a community.

Discussion ended, residents folded and returned their chairs to the
corners, then milled about mingling and chatting. The Chair of the Board
carefully not too soon, at last reminded his garrulous neighbors that,
although discussion on the agenda item had ended, the meeting had not —
therefore please remain, seated, or say goodnight. Then the Board
on its bedrock of creaking wood floor and folding metal chairs
resumed the essential works of democracy.

She stayed through passage of the motion to adjourn, then donned her
frayed coat and walked out the door. She passed the Firehouse, Post Office, then
crossed the bridge at the stream, and hiked the hill toward the Library and School.
On this cold, clear, starry night Democracy took heart — for though now she feels
in some parts unwelcome, she finds enduring an unlocked door, an open floor,
and a folding chair at the Town Hall in Woodbury.

Best of FPF: To the Guy in the Truck

Posted on Friday, February 21, 2025 by No comments yet

Bridget shared this harrowing tale in their Winooski Forum. We thought it was well worth a share:

“Couple Saturdays ago, I was out walking, and somehow tripped and fell on the street — broke my wrist, and banged myself up pretty good. I was a couple blocks from home, and thought I could make it, but when I started getting light headed, we went to plan B. My partner flagged down the first vehicle she saw, and asked for help.

This is one reason why I love this city: the guy driving the pickup she stopped immediately jumped out and helped me into the truck — got me home safe and sound. Thank you so much, guy in the truck! I didn’t get his name, but I know he had just been ice fishing, and mentioned visiting his sister here in Winooski. I hope sometime I get to pay back this kindness.”

An Appreciation Week Sampler

Posted on Friday, February 14, 2025 by No comments yet

In the week leading up to Valentine’s Day, we invited members of Front Porch Forum to share what you care about in your community. “Is there a person, a program, or a place in your town or neighborhood that makes things just a little bit better? Helps your town to connect? Makes a dark day brighter?”

Well, people REALLY stepped up. Hundreds of messages spread warmth across Vermont.

Here are some snippets that were extra sweet:

“Sending a very special love note of gratitude to our dear neighbors and their exuberant galumphing dog. There are so many reasons to love this family, like shared gardening conversations over the fence, backyard fires, Halloween celebrations, watching their kiddos grow from youngins that my own kiddo looks up to into vibrant teenagers, sharing cups of flour and eggs, sips of a happy hour beverage on the porch… And then perhaps my most jubilent reason to love them, their sweet pooch, who my darling pup considers his girlfriend extraordinaire.”
• Ali, Bristol Forum

“Residents being attuned to our neighbors and community members, efforts to maintain the unique identity of a community, people demonstrating they want to share and celebrate, a resounding understanding that Community is not static- but needs to be developed, sought after, and nourished.”
• Bernie, Jericho

“I appreciate neighbors helping neighbors: sharing garden produce or baked goods, loaning a lawn mower or a tractor, shoveling a path, or running an errand. I appreciate us looking for the best in each other.”
• Margaret, Sandgate

“We were delighted to find pink and red hearts sprayed on our neighborhood snowbanks.”
• Paul, Waterbury

“I appreciate all the people with chickens that offer their spare eggs for sale during the warmer months. I love being able to buy my eggs locally from happy chickens instead of going to the grocery store. A carton of multi-colored eggs is a small joy in my day.”
• Jaylann, East Montpelier

“The other day we were driving past the Town Green and my grand daughter exclaimed: that where the sleigh with reindeer was. That’s where my dad played music! I am so grateful to the many people who help ensure that our Town Green has many wonderful and family friendly events all year long.”
• Cheryl, New Haven

The February 13 “Best of FPF” featured the following:

“Linda always has a kind smile and caring words for anyone who enters Beaudry’s Store. Open seven days a week without fail – now THAT is unwavering commitment. Thank you Linda for being a BEST friend to our town.”
• Melinda, Huntington Forum

“Deep bow of gratitude and appreciation for the Broad Brook Community Center, which hosts such wonderful community gatherings… beautiful and welcoming with its two big red doors, the old Grange is one of the vital beating hearts of Guilford.”
• Willow, Guilford Forum

“I cannot tell you how grateful I am for the staff and residents of Thompson House in Brattleboro. The staff is amazing: loving, caring, kind, and attentive. It is a real community and I feel very, very lucky to have my Dad living there.”
• Robert, Newfane Forum

“Farmer James cares so much for the bees and pollinators in our community and the whole world! He works hard to help people stay informed about what we all can do to help them and us to have a better future for everyone 🐝🐝🐝.”
• Donna, Bethel Forum

“My children and I really appreciate the skating rink in Randolph. They have wonderful employees that are happy to help and the kids absolutely love the ice time!”
• Kat, Braintree Forum

“I appreciate the Middletown Springs Volunteer Fire Department for selflessly putting their lives on the line every time that siren goes off. They’re out day or night, in all kinds of weather and out of love of neighbor and the goodness of their hearts and for no pay. Every one a hero.”
• Larry, Middletown Springs Forum

“In the early morning hours today, I was woken from sleep in my warm, comfy bed because my dogs wanted to let me know that the person driving the town plow in our neighborhood was already working hard in the cold and dark to make sure that we could safely go where we needed to go today.”
• Janan, Northfield Forum

Front Porch Forum is Part of “Why We Shouldn’t Give Up on the Internet”

Posted on Friday, February 14, 2025 by No comments yet

New_ Public’s Eli Pariser Delivers a Speech at the Vatican Featuring Front Porch Forum

Eli Pariser is an author, activist, and entrepreneur focused on how to make technology and media serve democracy. He helped lead MoveOn.org, co-founded Upworthy, wrote “The Filter Bubble,” and is currently Co-Director of New_ Public. He has highlighted Front Porch Forum in numerous pieces and conversations, shining a light on its ability to lead to healthier communities thanks to its intentional design. 

You can imagine our surprise – and delight – when he delivered a powerful speech to an audience that included Pope Francis at the Vatican’s Jubilee of the World of Communications – and put Front Porch Forum at the heart of his argument for “why we shouldn’t give up on the Internet.” 

Here’s a highlight:

In Vermont, a small state in the northeast of the United States, people use Facebook and TikTok but town conversation mostly doesn’t happen there. They have something more like an actual digital town square — a home-grown social network called Front Porch Forum built specifically for the purpose of allowing towns to have good discussions.

Front Porch Forum has never taken venture capital and isn’t seeking to make a ton of money from advertisers. In fact, it’s a public benefit corporation that is not intended to make more money than is required to sustain itself. It’s always been built not for advertisers but to serve communities in Vermont first. And as a result, it can do conversations differently. 

Because it doesn’t need to worry primarily about advertisers or engagement, instead of optimizing for the most posts possible, FPF optimizes for thoughtfulness — by updating only once a day. It’s a bold statement that says: slow down. Think about what you’re saying. And say something meaningful. And among other things, it makes having a flame war really arduous, because you have to be willing to carry it on for days at a time. 

One of the things that FPF shows us is that these aren’t places we need to spend a lot of time for them to change us and foster stronger communities.

In our offline lives, places of worship are a great example of this: Even among the faithful, there are few that spend a large proportion of our time literally inside a church or synagogue or mosque or temple. But the parts of us that are nourished by these spaces remain fortified when we leave. 

The same is true of the digital public spaces — we don’t need to vanquish Meta or TikTok entirely to make digital space building worth doing. People use Instagram in Vermont too… but FPF adds to their lives. 

Front Porch Forum also puts its money where its mouth is when it comes to stewardship — in fact, while only a tiny fraction of people at TikTok or Meta work as moderators, at the 40-person organization of Front Porch Forum, half of the employees are paid moderators. 

With this ratio of stewards to content, every single message can be read before it reaches everyone else to make sure it conforms to the very clear and thoughtful set of norms that have been co-developed over 20 years with community members. And when messages don’t — which happens sometimes — they don’t just disappear. Instead, you get a friendly note from one of the stewards asking you to phrase things differently. 

And so, conversation goes better. People know their neighbors better. Communities are healthier. We conducted survey research on Front Porch Forum’s impact and found that not only did people across the political spectrum and across demographics like it much more than Facebook or Nextdoor, they also got more involved in the life of their town and were more committed neighbors as a result.

Of course, Front Porch Forum only exists in one small state in the United States. In most places around the country and the globe, these local conversations happen in forums like Facebook Groups and Nextdoor that are much less well designed for this purpose. But at New_ Public, the nonprofit R&D lab I run, we think Front Porch Forum is on to something big. 

Read all about the experience in this New_ Public blog post.

Read the speech in its entirety here.

Watch and listen to Eli’s address (the bit about Front Porch Forum can be found at the 32-minute mark)

Best of FPF: NaHaiWriMo – What!?

Posted on Friday, February 7, 2025 by No comments yet

Lalee invited members of the Craftsbury Forum to get creative this month. We thought their posting was well worth a share:

“National Haiku Writing Month is here! Rev your pens, sharpen your pencils, get ready, get set, go! I’ll post a digested list of prompts each week, you bring your curiosity and creativity to the page. (Haiku is a short, Japanese-style poem of only three lines. It’s generally ruled by a syllable count of 5 syllables in the first line, 7 in the second, and 5 in the third.)

Thursday: fortitude
Friday: clarity
Saturday: gravity
Sunday: ravenous
Monday: peculiar
Tuesday: quandary
Wednesday: stampede

Craftsbury’s Third Annual Haiku Slam to follow!”

Best of FPF: A Lone Skater

Posted on Friday, January 31, 2025 by No comments yet

Ann took solace in a lovely winter scene and shared it on the South Hero Forum. We thought it was well worth a share:

“To whoever was playing ice hockey alone at 5 pm today (Sunday) — pretty far out, halfway between Apple Island Marina and Paradise Bay — thank you. It was beautiful to watch and lifted my mood.”

Best of FPF: Cookie Love

Posted on Friday, January 24, 2025 by No comments yet

Dana shared this lovely story on their Montpelier Forum. We thought it was well worth a share:

“We came home this evening to find a sweet surprise pinned to our mailbox: a Ziploc bag of cookies and an index card reading, ‘I know that love is ultimately the only answer to mankind’s problems.’ – MLK Jr., plus many hand-drawn hearts and the words ‘Peace on Earth’ in glittery gel pen.

I might have a guess as to which neighbor brought this gift, or I might not. Whoever you are, thank you for your mysterious generosity on a single-digit night.”

Best of FPF: UPS Driver? Or, Unsung Hero!?

Posted on Friday, January 17, 2025 by No comments yet

It’s not uncommon to read “Thanks for helping me to get my car out of a ditch” appreciations on Front Porch Forum. But, we thought the responses to Rich’s posting in the Huntington Forum expressing gratitude to UPS driver, CJ, were well worth a share:

“CJ is the best delivery driver you will ever meet and a rather great human in general.” – Matthew

“CJ, our UPS driver, is indeed the best. He is also an author, check out his book ‘Palmer’s Acquisition.'” – Don

“He’s one of our unsung heroes. He’s an excellent problem solver. And even when there’s no problem to solve, I look forward to his arrival at Sleepy Hollow because he has such a warm, easy presence and knows so much about the region’s people and places.” – Carol

“He always calls us if he has to leave a package at the base of our driveway at night. Who does that?” – Melissa

“We have enjoyed his company and friendship over the last few years, He brought our son a tiny UPS truck for his birthday, I thoroughly enjoyed his book ‘Palmers Acquisition,’ and I recommend you read it!” – Casey

Best of FPF: An Early Welcome

Posted on Friday, January 10, 2025 by No comments yet

Jeff turned to his Burlington Forum when he and his wife welcomed their baby before they expected. We thought his post was well worth a share:

“I wanted to write a quick note of gratitude; the response to our ‘Oh no, we don’t have any onesies that fit our preemie baby!’ request for help was overwhelming. So many kind people drove through the snow on short notice to give us their hand-me-downs; so many people shared stories of their own very tiny babies growing up big and strong. I’m tearful thinking of the generosity and care, and am so thankful to live in this community and city.”