#VT – Neighbors in Jericho are debating the paving of some dirt roads on their Front Porch Forum this past month. Many good points are making the rounds. Elected leaders are reading FPF. This is good stuff.
Many of the postings are also making their way to sister town Underhill’s FPF. We heard from an FPF member there the other day complaining about clogging up his FPF with this dirt road conversation from neighboring Jericho.
FPF online community manger Linda posted in response…
One neighbor’s interesting news is another’s static! The feedback is helpful…
And today, from Underhill FPF member Karl…
More feedback, Linda: Jericho roads are important to Underhill drivers. This paving debate is intrinsically interesting and directly pertinent to us. Far from “clogging” the forum it’s animating and informing the forum. More to the point, much of the beauty of FPF is its lean, succinct presentation; it takes a fraction of a second to skip what doesn’t interest us. Even more to the point, the point of FPF isn’t only to get the news, it’s also to participate in and partake of the community around us, to learn to think of ourselves as connected and responsible for each other. Please send us anything and everything we might care about, whether or not we’re eligible to vote on it.
#VT A recent news article about apparent neglect of some farm animals in the Town of Cambridge led to a wide-ranging discussion on Front Porch Forum there. After expressions of shock and dismay, other folks added more information that helped clarify the particular situation. People discussed steps being taken by neighbors, a local vet, and state officials. And then today, Jena posted on FPF about a group forming…
Thanks so much for the emails! I’m excited by all the positive feedback for a community animal support group. Our 1st meeting is on January 3rd @ 6pm. To get to my house, turn off route 15 at The Cambridge Village Market… I’m looking forward to meeting all you kind hearted animal lovers:)
I’m eager to hear how this new group will help area animals that fall between the cracks of our faltering economy.
#VT – From Bill and Kristi on Bristol’s Front Porch Forum today…
… to all who inquired about the computer desk, THANK YOU! The response was awesome and it shows just how great FPF really is! I wanted to tell everyone who was interested that the desk is gone. It went to live with a new family tonight. Thank you all again and Merry Christmas!
#OWS #BTV #VT – Thomas Meany writes about anthropologist David Graeber’s new book, DEBT: The First 5,000 Years, in this week’s NYT Book Review. Graeber, considered by some to be the “house theorist of Occupy Wall Street,” is gaining traction. From the review…
In 1925 the French anthropologist Marcel Mauss published his classic essay “The Gift,” which argued that contrary to the textbook account of primitive man merrily trading beaver pelts for wampum, no society was ever based on barter. The dominant practice for thousands of years was instead voluntary gift-giving, which created a binding sense of obligation between potentially hostile groups. To give a gift was not an act based on calculation, but on the refusal to calculate. In the societies Mauss studied most closely the Maori of New Zealand, the Haida of the Pacific Northwest people rejected the principles of economic self-interest in favor of arrangements where everyone was perpetually indebted to someone else.
“Perpetually indebted to someone else”… this sums up so much of what I love about my community life in Burlington, VT right now. We have a critical mass of people who willingly have jumped into debt with each other… not monetary debt, rather favor debt.
I was raised to value making my contribution to others while taking great pains to avoid accepting the same from others. So were lots of folks here. But that’s a recipe for setting yourself apart, for isolation. As my family has learned to accept favors from those around us, it’s made our contributions to others that much more meaningful and personal.
Now, through Front Porch Forum, MealTrain, our church, school, neighborhood and other means, we ask and offer favors daily from hundreds of friends, neighbors and acquaintances. Each request works against isolation and lays down another thread in the web of community that supports our life. This is a crucial asset… as much as our house, my job, the kids’ college savings.
My brother and his family are planning a holiday visit to see us in Vermont this month. We could all jam into our house, but I know they would sleep better if we had more space for the two families. Hotels are expensive and distant… B&Bs too. So, I put the word out to neighbors and got several offers of empty houses that we could use on our block. These neighbors are traveling out of state and are glad to share their home while they’re away. We’ve done this a dozen times over the past few years… offering or asking for empty-house guest lodging. Make that hundreds of times if we include other favors… meals, rides, tools, advice, kids stuff, labor, baby/pet sitting, on and on.
This is incredibly generous and trusting of all involved… but it’s also keeping each of us “perpetually indebted to our neighbors” in a way that makes our community stronger with each exchange.
Stories from e-Vermont. First, from Middlesex…
e-Vermont partner Front Porch Forum provides towns and neighborhoods with a virtual town green and bulletin board. Residents who opt to sign in can easily post notes which get delivered to e-mailboxes throughout the community. Notices about upcoming events, stuff for sale or trade, lost pets, and wildlife sightings mix with discussions about town budgets, local elections, and favorite movies. FPF is also a platform for readers to connect with area businesses and service providers.
Duane Sorrell started his auto repair business in Middlesex last year and reached out on FPF to let people know he was opened. More than 500 of the town’s 700 households are FPF members. Within a couple of days Duane had a dozen new customers. Now people know about a local option for car service and the town has one more successful small business. Meet Duane in this brief interview:
And from Moretown…
The village center of Moretown sits along the usually friendly Mad River. But Tropical Storm Irene swelled it to a torrent, taking houses and bridges in its wake.
Just prior to Irene, this e-Vermont community was slowly building interest in its new town wideFront Porch Forum. Suddenly, it exploded with activity. In a few long days, Moretown residents and public officials shared 300 disaster-related postings among neighbors on FPF. Typically it would take five months to generate that many postings there. Also, even without consistent power or Internet availability in many places, the FPF member count increased by 50%. Indeed, FPF proved so valuable to residents that it was printed each day and posted at Town Hall for those who did not have online access.
In addition to 5-10 daily updates from public officials on FPF, neighbors rallied to help each other directly. Here’s one result shared by a Moretown FPF member…
“We’ve lost half a house but we’ve gained a community. I’ve never experienced being carried through a devastating event by large numbers of friends, neighbors, and complete strangers before. Thank you Moretown and out-of-town volunteers for your heart-breaking generosity.”
#VT – Folks moving into a neighborhood or town often get a lot of value from Front Porch Forum. But so too do long-time residents. From Greg in Bristol, VT today…
Here in Bristol/New Haven we have an extremely tight community. Everybody knows everybody. My family has been in the same place for several generation and I love it. I like how Front Porch has brought the community even closer.
You have made my life shine through Front Porch Forum. I have met people, some of my own neighbors. We have bought things, received free things, have new customers for our cord wood business. Bless you all… this is so amazing. My husband has lived here all his 56 years. I have been here for 33 years. We have ALL lost touch with each other. Let the love shine!
Thanks Tammy! The note above arrived via handwritten card in the P.O. Box, including a $25 contribution. We’ve gotten hundreds of these testimonials… each one makes my day!
#VT – Powerful conversations among neighbors going on these days. Here’s a sample posted by Guy to the Cambridge Front Porch Forum today…
Today’s Burlington Free Press had a thoughtful article on a declining middle class, as exemplified by a Jeffersonville family… My impressions:
1) Good for my Cambridge village neighbor Mike Moser for providing factual background and context for the story. As someone involved in helping Vermonters discuss important policy issues, I have found that the more relevant facts I have, the better. Sounds obvious but it is remarkable how easily I go straight to interpretation and opinion when what I really need is more information.
2) As I read it I said “thank God for my job” because just three years ago that’s where I was, working three iffy jobs to unsuccessfully scrape together enough money to pay the bills. My family and church communities were helpful in every way when I asked them, but what I really needed is what I finally got – a good paying job. This job gave my wife a good last two years of her life in more ways than one. Sometimes I think that government and non-profits would help people more if they would focus more on simply letting the job creators do their thing. Local applications of this might be – sorry if I offend – saying “no” a little less reflexively to new business proposals. I know there are tradeoffs, but as we weigh the pros and cons in our own minds and in forums like this, perhaps the life-saving creation of a few good jobs should count a little more.
3) As I read it I also said “thank God for the safety net” beyond church and family that provided health care and yes even food at the most difficult times. I made perhaps 10 visits to Lamoille County food shelfs back in the dark old days, swallowing my pride because it was my job to provide, and when my labor wasn’t enough, then my willingness to ask would have to suffice. It was hard, but it was made easier by the welcoming attitude of the staff, as well as by their willingness to make distinctions between food for the really needy (basic, locally donated foods bought with donated cash) and the less-in-demand grocery store perishables, and then finally the federal commodities. What also made it easier was, frankly, going to other towns. I simply don’t know if I could have gone to a Cambridge food shelf. It was so much less humiliating to go to Morrisville, and that has nothing to do with their attitude and everything to do with my vanity. It is a big step to go from feeling compassion for one of “them” to actually being one of “them”. I apologize if I sound politically incorrect, but that is how it felt. So I would recommend that food shelves not be in the least bit territorial. If someone lives in another town, there is a reason they go elsewhere, unless of course they just don’t know. One can say “you shouldn’t feel that way” but – I did, and I suspect others might also.
So, what can we do to help our underemployed neighbors? In a nutshell, here are three things I can think of, maybe you have ideas too: be more open to local job creation; buy services locally; and support the local safety net. FPF is a great tool for doing all three, but it’s up to us as individuals and as a community to go the extra mile, as a great man once said.
By the way, more than 40% of Cambridge households are FPF members.
Dave in Bristol #VT just shared this nugget. He had a trampoline he was looking to unload. He listed it on Craigslist Vermont for a month… no calls. Almost immediately after posting it on the Bristol Front Porch Forum he heard from seven neighbors!
I wish I had 7 to give away after the responses in the first hours after posting.
We hear this kind of thing again and again. FPF can be a super-effective way to buy, sell, give away, etc. The big differentiator… your posting reaches people who are not actively looking for what you have/want. But when they read your FPF posting, some of them think… “Yeah… I’d love a trampoline!”
From Sue in Moretown #VT today…
Thank you Front Porch Forum for connecting me with a Forum member who cleaned my gutters and swept my garage roof. So nice to meet a neighbor in the process.
That’s FPF in a nutshell. Get something checked off your to-do list… and meet a neighbor in the process. Our aim is to help neighbors connect and build community. It happens one small exchange at a time… online and face-to-face.
As a friend said recently… “So much of the Internet feels like a fire hose of information, but FPF is like slow-drip irrigation.” I’m not sure how I feel about being compared to a soaker hose… guess we’ve been called worse. 😉
Ghost of Midnight is an online journal about fostering community within neighborhoods, with a special focus on Front Porch Forum (FPF). My wife, Valerie, and I founded FPF in 2006... read more